“Therefore, since we are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses, let us also lay aside every weight and the sin that clings so closely, and let us run with perseverance the race that is set before us, looking to Jesus the pioneer and perfecter of our faith, who for the sake of the joy that was set before him endured the cross, disregarding its shame, and has taken his seat at the right hand of the throne of God.”—Hebrews 12:1-2
She was my English teacher, my drama director, my classmate’s mother, but most of all, she was someone I was honored to call not only my teacher but a friend. Yesterday morning, Mrs. L lost her battle with cancer leaving a void for all who know and love her.
I am the wordsmith and writer I am because of this dear teacher. She saw promise in me before I even saw it in myself. I remember one year in particular when she was prepping for the one act play competition. One of the actresses had to drop out and Mrs. L came to me and asked me to be in the production. I didn’t quite know it then, but I definitely know it now. That moment in time is where I was bitten by the acting bug.
My love for reading also was honed by this amazing teacher. I can’t pick up a book without thinking through its plot line, its audience, and its message. These were all characteristics that I learned from an amazing teacher. In addition, who I am as a writer, comes from all that she taught me about language and words.
But Mrs. L was so much more than a teacher to me. She was one of the many who showed me what it meant to be a woman of faith and to love unconditionally. She wouldn’t put up with bullying in the classroom and for that I am extremely thankful. She was a woman; a teacher; but most especially a mom to some amazing children and grandchildren who she also taught to be world changers.
I remember looking out at my consecration service and seeing Mrs. L sitting in her families usual Sunday pew. She had come to share in this special day with my family and I. I will never forget how many times she told me how proud she was of the woman of faith that I have grown into.
Mrs. L was a world changer in all essences of the word. She taught her students, her children, and her grandchildren to sit with those who were sitting alone, to encourage others, to be a friend to the lonely, and to look for the good. Today, as I reflect on Mrs. L’s memory, I am so incredibly thankful that she blessed my life. She taught me that sometimes life is hard, but that it is always worth it.
Today, as I reflect on the many lives she has touched, I vow to continue to be one of her beloved storytellers. Barb, thank you for being my amazing teacher, a faithful witness to the gospel, one of the best storytellers I know and a beloved mentor and friend. I wouldn’t be who I am without what you taught me. I am who I am because you weren’t afraid to show me; to love me (and all of your students) unconditionally. Thank you doesn’t even seem enough. But know that I am one of the many lives you touched.
I’ll be linking up with these lovely ladies–Kelly and the Ra Ra linkup, Jennifer and Tell His Story, Holley and Coffee for your Heart, and Kristin and Porch Stories.
So well said, Tara, Barb will be missed, in our church, and community, her kind words, and smile, is one that always showed her true concern, and care of the person she was talking with.
Indeed she will be missed!
Beautiful memories. Wow thank you for this.
You are welcome!
Mrs. Eloise Mayfield, my 4th grade teacher – I will never forget…xo
I’m so sorry for your loss, Tara. Your eulogy makes me want to be a better teacher and mentor.
What a beautiful tribute to such a mentor, life changer, teacher, and friend. This just reminds me once again how our lives touch others and we never know how we will touch and change those lives we come in contact with. So sorry for your loss. May we be more like Mrs. L and positively impact those around us.
Thank You! She was such a gift in my life!
I love it when teachers impact our lives in such a way as Mrs. L did yours. I’m so glad you wrote this wonderful tribute in a way we can all get a glimpse of the special person she was. She’s left a spark of her light in you.
Indeed she has left a spark of light in me!
TARA, YOU DID AN AWESOME JOB ON WRITING THIS TRIBUTE ON MRS. LITSEY!!! SHE WAS A WONDERFUL WOMEN & WILL BE MISSED BY ALL!!! SENDING SYMPATHY TO HER FAMILY & ALL!!! GOD BLESS!! JUST AWAY BUT NEVER FORGOTTEN!!!!
What a legacy she left! I am sorry for you but happy for her as she receives her reward. May God grant you peace today.
Yes she left a legacy for sure. Thank You for your kind words.